DAFTAR LABELKU (klik saja jangan ragu-ragu)

Rabu, 12 September 2012

KATA BIJAK UNTUK ORANG TUA BIJAK


Kiss your children often, for every display of affection will raise your status in Heaven.
-Islamic wise words-

Your children are not your children.
They are sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you.
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For thir souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the make upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness.
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He also loves the bow that is stable.”
Kahlil Gibran

To you who are parents, I say, show love to your children. You know you love them, but make certain they know it as well. They are so precious. Let them know. Call upon our Heavenly Father for help as you care for their needs each day and as you deal with the challenges which inevitably come with parenthood. You need more than your own wisdom in rearing them.”
Thomas S. Monson

“Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.”
Anne Frank

“...the love, respect, and confidence of my children was the sweetest reward I could receive for my efforts to be the woman I would have them copy.”
Louisa May Alcott, Little Women-

“Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.”
James Baldwin-

“Educate your children to self-control, to the habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will, and you have done much to abolish misery from their future and crimes from society.”
Benjamin Franklin-

“Your children are the greatest gift  that Allah  will give to you, and their souls the heaviest responsibility , Allah will place in your hands. Take time with them, teach them to have faith in Allah.. Be a person in whom they can have faith.
-MasKatnoGiri-


Belajar dari Kata Bijak "Becik Ketitik, Ala Ketara" oleh MasKatnoGiri



Becik Ketitik, Ala Ketara  merupakan peribahasa  atau bisa disebut sebagai kalimat bijak bahasa Jawa. Kalau dipikir secara mendalam kalimat becik ketitik olo ketoro merupakan ajaran yang luar biasa. Namun, kalimat tersebut perlu juga diperjelas bahwa kebajikan ( Jawa; kebecikan) adalah bukan kesimpulan dari  ukuran manusia, tapi kebaikan yang bersumber dari kebaikan Allah s.w.t. Sebab jika kebaikan yang disimpulkan manusia sering salah kaprah, karena dalam menyimpulkan sesuatu manusia masih dilatarbelakangai kehendak-kehendak negatif (hawa nafsu).

Dari sebagian manusia mengartikan becik ketitik ala ketara adalah jika suatu keburukan ditutup-tutupi maka lambat laun ia akan muncul juga, dan sepandai-pandainya menyimpan bangkai busuk, maka lama-lama baunya akan tercium juga atau terkadang orang menyimpulkan bahwasannya hal2 yang baik dari seseorang hampir tidak pernah terlihat, sementara hanya keburukan-keburukan orang tersebut yang diperhatikan".Dimana setiap orang ada sisi baik dan sisi buruknya tetapi yang selalu diperhatikan hanyalah keburukan dan keburukannya saja, tanpa pernah melihat sisi kebaikannya.
Dalam konteks yang lebih luas bahwasanya setiap kebaikan  dan keburukan  tidak selamanya  terungkap di dunia  namun, pasti ada balasan di akherat.

MasKatnoGiri mengucapkan selamat bagi orang  yang memiliki kecerdasan spiritual tinggi, mereka  terkadang tidak peduli tentang falsafah jawa "becik ketitik ala ketara", namun mereka yakin bahwa Allah Maha Melihat. Orang yang bertaqwa adalah orang luar biasa  yang tanpa ragu-ragu berbuat kebaikan dan menghindari keburukan. Orang yang baik (baca:Taqwa) tak pernah pokil,  bahkan tak tersirat menyimpan keburukan, keselamatan diri dan orang lain mereka jaga.

Bagi yang saat ini masih asyik dengan keburukan  tanpa peduli nilai-nilai kebecikan, mereka hanya mengejar  kepuasan hawa nafsu, tentu MasKatnoGiri merasa prihatin dan berdoa semoga Allah memberi petunjuk bagi dirinya sendiri. Bagi yang nekat kita akan saksikan atau mungkin kita harus sabar untuk menyaksikan bahwa Allah berkuasa menjadikan mereka kaum "PENGEJAR HAWA NAFSU" akan terpuruk.