THE KEY OF SUCCESS (KUNCI SUKSES ) UNTUK "BOLO DEWE"

THE KEY OF SUCCESS (KUNCI SUKSES )  UNTUK "BOLO DEWE"

  THE KEY OF SUCCESS (KUNCI SUKSES )

Even though I am not  a perfect man, but  I hope to be better. I hope that someday I can be  a successful  man  in many fields  either in financial, social, academical, and spiritual fields.

Is it possible?

Certainly, The world is full of possibilities. I always remember my teacher’s advice that everybody has   a right to be successful but they must have a key  of success. Do you know what  the key of success is?

My teacher said that POSITIVE THINKING IS THE KEY OF SUCCESS.

My teacher adds that effective positive thinking that brings results is much more than just repeating a few positive words, or telling ourself that everything is going to be all right. It has to be our predominant mental attitude. It is not enough to think positively for a few moments, and then letting fears and lack of belief enter our mind. Some effort and inner work are necessary.

Here are tips to help us  develop the power of positive thinking:

• Always use only positive words while thinking and while talking. Use words such as, 'I can', 'I am able', 'it is possible', 'it can be done', etc.
• Allow into our awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success.
• Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Refuse to think such thoughts, and substitute them with constructive happy thoughts.
• In our conversation use words that evoke feelings and mental images of strength, happiness and success.
• Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in our mind its successful outcome. If  we visualize with concentration and faith,  we will be amazed at the results.
• Read at least one page of inspiring book every day.
• Minimize the time we listen to the news and read the papers.
• Associate our self with people who think positively.
• Always sit and walk with our back straight. This will strengthen our confidence and inner strength.
• Walk, do exercise, swim or engage in some other physical activity. This helps to develop a more positive attitude.

Think positive and expect only favorable results and situations, even if our current circumstances are not as you wish them to be. In time, our mental attitude will affect our life and circumstances and change them accordingly.

YEN ORA BOLO ORA TAK KANDANI

(YEN ORA BOLO ORA TAK KANDANI)
Orang normal pasti ingin SUKSES (ini bukan akronim SukatnoGiri Setia Selalu). Penting untuk dicermati ciri-ciri calon orang sukses
1. Keberanian untuk berinisiatif/ kreatif
Inisiatif dan kreatif adalah kekayaan semua orang, tinggal orang itu mau atau tidak untuk berinisiatif dan kreatif mengemukakan ide-idenya.
2. Tepat waktu
Jumlah waktu yang sama yaitu 24 jam sehari. Orang yang senantisa berpegang (DEMI WAKTU MANUSIA DALAM KERUGIAN) dan berusaha menggunakan waktu sebaik-baiknya, pasti calon sukses (iki conto : bangun pagi, tepat jnji dll)
3. Senang melayani dan memberi dengan ikhlas
Rumus sukses dari banyak orang sukses adalah mampu memelopori, namun sebuah additional attribute dari sikap kebiasaan melayani dan memberi.
“The more you give to others, the more respect you get in return”
4. Bersifat Terbuka pada Hal-hal baru dan tentu baik
Rasa percaya dan kebesaran hati untuk membuka diri terhadap orang lain merupakan cermin bahwa kita siap jadi sukses
5. Cooperatif (Senang bekerja sama dan membina hubungan baik)
Kemampuan bekerja sama dalam tim adalah salah satu kunci keberhasilan utama.Orang tidak bisa hidup sendiri dalam meraih sukses.
6. Senang belajar pada hal-hal baru
Jadi senang belajar dan mencari hal baru adalah sebuah sikap kesuksesan.
7. Pantang menyerah dan mengeluh.
Lance Armstrong pernah berkata, “There are two kinds of days: good days and great days.”
Hanya ada dua macam hari: hari yang baik dan hari yang sangat baik.
8. Berani menanggung resiko
Resiko hanyalah akan berakibat dua macam: be a good or a great day. Jadi, jadi tidak perlu dikhawatirkan lagi bukan?
Kegagalan pun hanyalah kesempatan belajar untuk tidak mengulangi hal yang sama di kemudian hari. Gagal itu biasa .
9. Berjuang, berusaha berpikir positif setiap saat.
Hidup adalah perjuangan (life is a strugle) Tidak mau berjuangan jangan hidup di bumi ini.
SELAMAT DAN SUKSES SELALU.

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بِسۡمِ ٱللهِ ٱلرَّحۡمَـٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ

In the Name of Allah Most-Compassionate, Most-Merciful

“Wal Asri…”
Feel time slipping away from between your fingers,
feel the realisation of Al-Haqq,
feel and understand His words when He said,
“Wal asri in’nal insaana la fi khus’r…”

Man is indeed at a loss,
as the sands of time run against him,
time ebbs away,
his life shortens,
his works slowly turn to dust.

Like him one day,
assigned to the grave of his life much coveted,
hearing footsteps walking away,
he comes into the full realisation,
“Wal asri in’nal insaana la fi khus’r…”

From what was he created but dust,
to what does everything return but dust,
time ebbs away from between his fingers,
and consumed by the universe,
he is returned to his former state from whence he came,
he understands his Lords words,
“Wal asri in’nal insaana la fi khus’r…”

Now in that realisation,
he sees only time,
like a river it flows through him,
like a particle of dust it is a part of him,
he sees only time but time enough to remember,
“illall ladhina aminu, wa ami lus-saalihat, wat’ta’wasau bil haqqi, wat ta’wasau bis sabr”

Now as time passes onto a place without time,
he understands the truth,
he sees only Al-Haqq,
now there is no time to count,
only deeds and hearts to measure,
in that place between time,
he realises there is only Al-Haqq,
there was only ever Al-Haqq.

There was no time and no place,
no thought and no space,
what was in between the spaces,
was only a figment of his mind,
of what was real is now left behind.

It was only a matter of time,
before he realised it was never about time,
it was about how each moment was spent,
in His contemplation and hearts yearning,
to be back once more with its kind.

Surah al-Asr
“I swear by the time,
Verily Man is in loss,
Except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy”.

BAD IMPACTS OF DATING (versi bhs Inggris di bawah versi Indonesia

Dating or courtship is a relationship between man and a woman who had no marriage. The activities such as going out together, taking a walk, dinner, etc to know each other better.Dating can bring about bad impact as the following:

1. Easy to fall into adultery
If there is a pair of male and female are not baligh (mahram) in fact the third is the devil (DHEMIT)
2. Weakening  the Faith
People who tend to put a love going out to his girlfriend on the feeling of love to Allah.
3. Training hypocrisy
People who are dating it is often deceptive, trying to make sure her partner that she is THE BEST.

4. Making long-delusion.
People who are in love-dating-often remembered by those who loved it. Then he thought of something, wishing all the time etc..
5. Reducing productivity
Dating can reduce productive activities; eg creating artwork, writing articles, short stories, poetry, or anything else.
6. Making the live lavishly (quasi-RICH) is not rich in monkeys
Even the money that was supposed to be saved out for  a girlfriend/ boyfriend: bought presents, buy puls, treat, and others.
7. Weakening  the power of concentration.

8. Eliminating the loyalty in married couple. It can be the quarrels and murder, just because of past hobbies in dating.

PACARAN (Perilaku CARA Anti Nalar KewaraSAN) 8M DAMPAK BURUK PACARAN

PACARAN (Perilaku CARA Anti Nalar KewaraSAN)

8M  DAMPAK BURUK PACARAN

1. Mudah terjerumus ke perzinaan
Bila ada sepasang laki dan perempuan  sudah baligh bukan (muhrim) sesungguhnya yang ketiga adalah setan. Yang berdua tadi temenya setan atau bhs latinya DEMIT.
2. Melemahkan Iman
Orang yang pacaran cenderung meletakkan rasa cinta kepada kekasihnya di atas rasa cinta kepada Sang Pencipta.
3. Melatih  kemunafikan
Orang yang berpacaran itu seringkali menipu, berusaha agar pasangannya yakin bahwa dialah THE BEST. Plig ganteng, plg cantik,plg layak hidup.dll

4. Menjadikan panjang angan-angan.
Orang yang sedang jatuh cinta—pacaran—seringkali teringat dengan orang yang dicintainya itu. Lalu ia memikirkan sesuatu, berandai-andai setiap waktu dll.
5. Mengurangi produktivitas
Tanpa pacaran bisa beraktivitas lain yang lebih produktif; misal membuat karya seni, menulis artikel, cerpen, puisi, atau yang lainnya.

6. Menjadikan hidup boros (soK KAYA) bukan kaya monyet
Orang yang pacaran Shok rela berkorban. Bahkan uang yang seharusnya untuk ditabung bisa habis untuk menyenangkan pacar: membelikan hadiah pacarnya, membeli pulsa, mentraktir,  dan yang lainnya.
7. Melemahkan daya konsentrasi, pikiran mereka hanya tertuju kepada pacarnya,lha wong tdk pacaran saja pikirannya sering HENG, kasaranya TELL MI apalagi hobinya pacaran.
8. Menghilangkan kesetiaan, terjadinya pertengkaran dan pembunuhan, hanya karena masa lalu hobinya pacaran. Tidak setia dengan pasangannya jika sudah menikah, karena masing-masing ingat dengan pacarnya yang lama, dan selalu membanding-bandingkan antara suami/ istrinya yang syah dengan pacarnya dulu. INGATLah SELALu REMAJAKU

ARTIS ADALAH IDOLANYA REMAJA OLEH MASKATNOGIRI

Anda pernah melihat anak remaja berbondong-bondong melihat artis idola mereka? Nereka rela mengeluarkan uang ratusan ribu bahkan jutaan, ngantri berjam-jam hanya untuk ketemu, dan terpesona oleh idola mereka, berjingkrak,berteriak histeris dan terkadang menangis.

Ingin Tahu Kenapa?

Berikut beberapa jawabanya:

1. Kebutuhan Role Model

Mereka merindukan model /figur /contoh yang dibanggakan. Apalagi kalau mereka tidak bisa menemukan figur di rumah, di sekolah dll, mereka akan semakin tergila-gila tokoh  idola.

2.Jiwa mereka labil  belum punya pendirian, sehingga pengaruh dari luar mudah mempengaruhi. Mereka tidak segan meniru model rambut( seperti rambut njegrak), baju atau celana, bahkan gaya bicara dan gaya kentut.Mereka juga suka menceritakan dan mendiskusikan kehebatan fansnya kepada teman-teman hingga mungkin memimpikannya saat tidur.

3. Profokasi Media

Media masa punya peran besar  dalam mendidik remaja. Kenapa ada artis menjadi idola karena media sebagai marketernya, mereka juga dapat keuntunga besar dari idola remaja.

4. Lupa kelemahan dari idola

Idola remaja juga manusia biasa, namun mereka mengira baw idolanya dekat dengan kesempurnaan.Mungkin mereka mengira kentutnyapun berbau wangi.